Introducing |
George Milton is the CEO of Failure Is Not The Problem, LLC, a consulting company that specializes in leadership development and training, life coaching, and motivational speaking. He is a United States Army Retired, Colonel who has over 30 years of experience as an internationally known Communicator, Coach, Mentor, Trainer Intuitive Counselor, Teacher, Inspirational Speaker, TV Co-Host and Author. George connects with people of all ages on all levels. He is a former University Assistant Professor who has extensive experience working with the federal government but also has a tremendous background in working within city government and community organizations. In his role as a Senior Staff Officer at European Command in Stuttgart, Germany he routinely briefed and spoke with Ambassadors. |
George Milton’s straight-from-the-heart, passion and high-energy, motivates audiences to step beyond their limitations and into their greatness in many ways. Over the past decade, George has used his role from keynote speaker to Master Trainer, creating the kind of workshop learning experience that got him committed to personal-and-professional development. His charisma, warmth and humor have transformed ordinary people into extraordinary achievers by using his own life, and his in-depth study of others’ challenges, to build an understanding of what works, what doesn’t work, and why.
He is a Certified Trainer in Success Principles, successfully completing the competency examination, and adoption of the Canfield Code of Ethics.
The Interview
Answer: Throughout my life I failed tremendously. In every aspect of my life. There came a point in my life when the failure was overwhelming and depressing. No one had every taught me that failure was simply a part of life. Not until I was in basic training at the age of 22 did anyone ever attempt to explain to me that failure was not the problem, how I responded to failure would make the difference in achieving my goals and aspirations or not. That wise individual was Sergeant First Class George Gaither, our Platoon Sergeant. Although I experience many failures, I also accomplished a modicum of success. Shortly before retiring from the Army I applied for and submitted a logo and phrase to the United Patent and Trademark Office. The submission was denied. Again, failure! It was at that point that I decided to write my book to let the world know that for me, all my failures throughout my entire life prepared me to become successful. I wanted to share this message with everyone who struggles daily with failing and want to coach, mentor, and train people on how to change their mindset regarding failure from negative to positive. While writing my book I spoke to many people and it became very apparent that most have an exceedingly difficult time accepting, understanding, or embracing failure on most levels. Therefore, in order to help my readers gently ease into approaching this very difficult topic, not only did I write my book, I also wrote a workbook and a journal.
What do you hope readers will learn/discover from reading your book?
Answer: That failure does not really exist expect for in the mind. Just like success, failure, if responded to correctly can propel one to obtain their greatest achievements. Failure is not to be feared but rather understood as simply experiences and that the most important lesson to learn is not what happens to someone but how one responds to failure.
What inspired you to write your book?
The desire to help others avoid the stressors brought on by what we have learned regarding the negativity of failure. And to revolutionize the world by teaching people how to use their failures to live a more abundant, happy, joyful and fulfilled life.
What’s next for you?
I am starting my next book to be entitled, Failure Is Not The Problem, It’s Your Leadership. This in my short-term goal. My long-term goal is to try and get a licensing deal with Nike or perhaps Adidas to start a Failure Is Not The Problem campaign in everyone sport beginning with youth, high school, collegiate and professional athletes; using my logo and phrase with is registered with the United States Patent and Trademark. The first logo and phrase failed but I submitted a second logo and phrase and it was approved. I responded to my initial failure by coming up with a more unique and better logo and phrase. I responded correctly to my initial failure.
What was the most difficult aspect of writing your book?
Actually, sitting down and starting to write. I know this is a cliché, but it’s true. I had literally finished putting together the research and praying and had everything that I wanted to write about. It was not until I heard in my head God saying, “if you don’t write this book,” I will find someone else to do it. It was at that point I literally sat down and began writing. I wholeheartedly believe that God wrote the book through me. I do not want to sound overly religious or spiritual, but that’s how it happened for me. A lifetime of failure brought to life for others to experience and understand from events a single person endured.
Did you have to do any special research for your book?
I don’t know if I would call it special, but I spoke to many people, or at least tried to speak to people and most were resistant and very uncomfortable talking about their failures. Honestly, there was not a lot of information from a positive perspective regarding failure. The information I did find was somewhat superficial and told people that failure either was not an option or was inherently negative. Two views I absolutely and abhorrently disagree with.
Why do you write? Is it something you’ve always wanted done, or always wanted to do? Or is it something that you started fairly recently?
I mainly write to inspire, motivate, educate and empower people to move from where they are to where they are meant to be. I believe every person on the earth has a purpose. I have always had a very wild imagination. I started out in life barely knowing how to read or write. Yet, within me I always wanted to be able to express myself through writing. The more education I received, the more I was able to take those images in my mind and put it on paper.
In five words describe your book!
Freeing, Motivating, Inspiring, Honest, and Achievable!
What 3 Books would you recommend:
1. What I know For Sure by Oprah Winfrey.
Why? Ms. Winfrey’s book motivates us to do some much needed introspection into what we know for sure about ourselves and what we believe and how those perspectives can change our lives for the better.
2. Higher Is Waiting by Tyler Perry.
Why? Mr. Perry writes about his life and his successes were and are being totally impacted by his spiritual awakening and the journey he is now on. I personally and professionally identify with all of his stories and analogies. After finishing Mr. Perry’s book, I immediately read it a second time. I actually used his book as a morning devotional during those two readings.
3. It Worked for Me: In Life and Leadership by Retired General Colin Powell.
Why? Throughout my military career I never had an “official” mentor. So, I had to “self-mentor.” In doing so, I read lots of books on leadership. This particular book, not to mention the fact that he was a Soldier, spoke personally to me as a leader. Anyone who wants to become a better leader should definitely read and become familiar with General Powell’s 13 Rules of Leadership.
Of all the books I’ve read, there is no single book which has significantly contributed to my writing style. It has been and continues to be a compilation of books in which I have read. To choose one would be a disservice to all other books which have impacted not only my writing style but my thought processes also.
About The Book
Sounds impossible? Well, it is not! In the “impossible” is the “possible.” And if you want the possibility of becoming successful, United States Army Retired Colonel, George Milton’s book, Failure Is Not The Problem, It’s The Beginning Of Your Success is a must read. Most leadership books major themes discuss how to achieve success only, but in life we all fail sometimes. And a lot of us fail miserably and oftentimes, more than we care to mention.
Throughout my life I have faced multiple failures over many years, yet I went on to achieve most of the goals I set for myself. It wasn’t always that way. In the beginning of my life failure hung over my head like an albatross around my neck. It wasn’t until I learned how to accept my failures and use those experiences to make myself better that I began to understand the value that my failure offered.
Too often we have been taught that failure has little or no value. We learn how to minimally tolerate our failure most times but not how to fully embrace our failures because of the negativity associated with that one powerful word.
I wrote my book, workbook and journal in order to help those who are struggling with failure learn a better way of becoming successful. The topic is failure, but the goal for my readers is to learn how to become successful by utilizing their failures as their strength and not experience failure as a weakness as most have been taught.
If you want to succeed you must walk through the doorway of this life changing resource, failure. In my book I address the challenges of adversity and how failure can motivate you, focus you, and change your life for the better.
In my book I share my story of growth from a difficult youth to a distinguished career Army combat officer. I share that it was only possible because I changed and adjusted my attitude to understand that my failures were actually my greatest resource. Not only do I reveal personal triumphs and defeats,
I demonstrate how in 12 easy to follow steps, you can transform your mindset from negative to positive regarding failure and in the process become successful.
Failure is a very difficult topic for most people to talk about and share. Therefore, not only did I write a book, but I also wrote a workbook and a journal to accompany my book so as to ease the challenge of approaching this sometimes-complex topic.
When I speak to people about their failures, I will sometimes present to the audience this one question, “when you fail, in one word, describe how that failure makes you feel.” Overwhelmingly there are two words that are at the forefront: disappointed and depressed.
The time has come for us to turn the page and reengage that one word, failure, and understand that once we learn how to accept our failures as a natural part of our lives, we will be able to not only achieve our life’s goals, but will be better equipped to live a more productive and happier life.
It is my hope that anyone who reads my book or finds the courage to go through the workbook and journal will understand that if they genuinely want to become successful and obtain their long sought-after goals and ambitions, they will learn how to embrace their failures as well as learn the important lessons and nuggets that failure has instore for them.
Here is a formula I came up with to remind myself of how to respond to my failures.
F+RR=S
Failure + Right Response = Success
In other words, when I fail, if I respond to my failure with the right response, to learn, to get better, to change my direction in life, to change my goals, then my chances of obtaining my objectives and successes will increase. Versus, blaming or making excuses and worst case, quitting.
Join me on this quest to change the world and impact the lives of people everywhere by helping them change their mindset to accept, understand, and learn that failure, when responded to properly is their greatest resource to help them become all that they are meant to be.
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I have two fun facts for you.
1. Scientific data says 92% of People who set New Year’s goals never actually achieve them. That leaves 8% of people who do achieve those ambitions.
2. 100% of “ALL” people at some point in their life will “FAIL” and “ALL” will “FAIL” multiple times.
Hello everyone, I am George Milton, “The Failure Coach.” A Certified Trainer in Success Principles.
Throughout my life I have fail many times. I failed out of kindergarten, I failed the first grade, I almost didn’t graduate from high school, I failed multiple times trying to get into the military, the Air Force initially and then the Army.
I failed or dropped out of six universities. I failed miserably and often when given training classes after I finally achieved my goal of enlisting into the Army.
Yet I went on to earn four degrees. Two of which are Master’s, all from accredited universities. I have 17 hours toward a doctorate degree, with a 4.0 GPA.
I became a full Colonel in the Army. And, I went on to be inducted into the Officer Candidate School Hall of Fame. As part of my normal duties as a Colonel I briefed Ambassadors and spoke publicly to foreign governments.
After a very slow start in life, how did I go on to accomplish all of this success?
By changing my relationship, my mindset and my attitude regarding “FAILURE.”
Why do people fear failure? Is it because failure, represents a mark of disgrace associated with a specific unfavorable circumstance or experience in our lives? Perhaps it defines the quality of a person one might believe himself to be. Is it because failure signifies shame, disgrace, dishonor; distain, and a blemish on our personhood? For me it comes down to a single word, “stigma.” It seems to me that if most people were honest, they can see how failure in and of itself isn’t necessarily the issue. It’s the “stigma” associated with the failure which creates the problems. Everyone basically knows that they have failed and will at some point in the future, fail again. So, failure isn’t really the problem. It’s the stigma allied with the failure. Which also is attached to our ego.
For many, it is critical for their friends, their community, their families and colleagues see them in a favorable light. Absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be respected and highly thought of. The challenge is, despite how others see you, it’s more important how you see yourself. Particularly when you fail. Pretending or hoping that “everyone” will like you or respect you is setting yourself up for failure. Interesting irony, isn’t it?
You know, it's not always you run into people who don't have to say they are Christians, in order for you to feel their love, but she's one of them.
So, I introduce to some....Lady Dyani Allen.
Let's go.
Awesome. So, here's our quirky quiz. The one where we'll get to know you a little better through real life questions.
What are your thoughts about laughter – I believe that laughter is like a medicine. I love to laugh and enjoy life. I grew up in a home where my siblings and I literally laughed through it all.
Favorite Book – The Master Stroke
Favorite Food – cheese
Favorite color – red
Favorite authors – Danielle Steel, Terri McMillan
Favorite scripture – Nehemiah 8:10
Great! This is how we get to know you a little better. I was like...WOW, she has a Danielle on the fav authors list. At least one of us made it. Hahahaha.
So you've written a book! Tell us about it....
The name of my book is, Closed Door Conversations. It's my very first book.
Because I know some stuff, I want you to give my readers your special testimony:
Writing Closed Door Conversations was an act of obedience. God placed writing this book in my heart about two years ago. I spent about one-and-a-half years telling myself all of the reasons why I wasn’t qualified to write a book. Satan was constantly in my head saying “What makes you think you know enough to write a book? Who told you that you were an authority on anything? What credentials do you have?...... When I finally decided to move ahead with writing the book, then I argued that I needed a desk top or a tablet, then I could get started. I needed to have more time, then I would write. When I stopped making excuses and just wrote the book, God gave me the words to say. I wrote the entire book using my cell phone. God was showing me that He’d already equipped me with everything that I needed. When I got to the last paragraph of the book, tears started flowing uncontrollably. It was like the Holy Spirit was giving me His stamp of approval. Since completing the book, God has been opening so many doors. I’m in awe of all that God is doing.
I must say, so many people have shared how he tries to steal their visions, gifts, and goals, but I'm so glad you pressed forward. I'm so glad that you stopped making excuses and became a big girl for real.
Okay, so we know you are a God-Girl, and you play the piano for your local church. How has your relationship with God affected your writing?
I tried to be transparent in my writing and allow my book to be a witness for Him. I’m afraid to not Honor God through any platform that I am given.
So, how did you come up with the story?
I have an open door policy at work. Any time my door is closed, it’s an indication that a very serious discussion is taking place behind those closed doors. The most significant conversations take place behind closed doors. That’s how the title of the book was birthed. I wanted to share things I’ve learned along the way with new leaders who may be struggling.
Awesome concept. I promise I don't close my door until it's private business. So I get this. WOW. Well, what’s next for Dyani the author?
I am already working on my next book. I’m focused on trying to write books that can help someone else, whether through information or inspiration.
I’d like to encourage anyone who’s struggling with stepping out into the unknown, to trust God. If He’s given you an assignment, He will give the provision for you to complete that assignment. There’s a blessing in your obedience!
Definitely. I am so happy to share you with the world Dyani. You're such a wonderful person and I pray that all the young leaders will not only buy your book, but gain ensight. So, I don't want to leave without sharing your bio with everyone. Thanks for sharing with me In The Living Room, and I will be inviting you back as soon as the next book is done.
Dyani Allen's Bio
Dyani Allen is a Registered Nurse who have served twenty plus years as a nurse and in nursing experience. Dyani is a proud alumni of Southern University School of Nursing (Shreveport Campus) and Wiley College of Marshall, Tx. Ms. Allen is a member of the Louisiana State Nurses Association and Sigma Theta Tau International Honor Society of Nursing.
Dyani is a passionate nurse leader with years of experience as Director of Nursing in Long Term Care facilities, who constantly seeks opportunities for professional growth. Due to her commitment to clinical excellence, she was awarded a scholarship from the Louisiana State Nurses Association and is currently pursuing completion of the Gerontological Nurse Certification Prep Course (GNP) through University of Nebraska Medical Center.
Dyani’s daily endeavor is to Glorify God and make her family proud. She is a loving mother of two daughters and Nana to two grandsons. As a respected and accomplished local pianist, she can be found playing the piano and singing praises to God on any given Sunday.
Closed Door Conversations
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Closed Door Conversations
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Happy Friday..... I'm so excited to introduce you to my sister and friend....proclaimed author Ann Marie! This sister is so amazing, and there's nothing in the world better than having a true sister on the couch! It gets good and interesting....So here's a little about her for those who may not know her... Ann Marie Bryan is a dedicated multi-talented leader with a passion for excellence. |
A Christian Fiction author, Ann Marie writes to educate, inspire and empower others. She desires to tell great stories with fascinating characters to show the awesome power of God in the lives of people and places. Her celebrated bestselling Encounters of the Heart series, blend faith and romance that test the resiliency of love.
Ann Marie's greatest passion is to empower others to succeed by tapping into their God-given potential. She enjoys writing, reading, dancing, teaching, meeting people and traveling. With all the knowledge and experiences that God has so graciously blessed her with, Ann Marie is determined to make her life a ministry for the Lord.
So let's get a little personal in the living room....
Tell us about yourself and how many books you have written.
I am a Christian Fiction author who writes to inspire and empower others. I desire to tell great stories with fascinating characters to show the awesome power of God in the lives of people and places. I have written 6 full-length novels and a short story. Worthy of mention is my celebrated bestselling Encounters of the Heart series, which blend faith and romance that test the resiliency of love.
My greatest passion is to empower others to succeed by tapping into their God-given potential. I enjoy writing, reading, dancing, teaching, meeting people and traveling. With all the knowledge and experiences that God has so graciously blessed me with, I am determined to make my life a ministry for the Lord.
What is the name of your latest book and what inspired it?
My latest release is “Hearts over the Line,” a riveting story about rising from the ashes, unlocking love, and learning to create and maintain an atmosphere of faith. This novel is the captivating conclusion to the “Encounters of the Heart” series, but it is also a standalone novel.
The series is based on Proverbs 4:23 (KJV) –“Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.” Although the books are in a series, they are also standalone novels.
Book 1 – Shades of the Heart is a novel about the courage to love in the midst of broken promises, and ultimately about the healing power of forgiveness.
Book 2 – Mirrored Hearts: Sealed by Fire is a stirring and deeply satisfying new addition to the series. It details the struggles of two broken hearts, mended by enduring love and sealed by fire.
Book 3 – A Place for My Heart is an emotionally gripping account of a most unexpected love. Crushed by heartache and desperate for an escape, he makes a life-changing choice.
Book 4 – Where My Heart Belongs is a heart-stirring story about love deferred and rediscovered under unforgettable circumstances. Love guided them to precisely what they needed—each other.
Book 5 – Hearts over the Line is an immensely moving story. As unresolved issues made unwelcome visits, the characters must learn to reset the atmosphere in which they live, and in so doing live in a place where God finds it easy to bless them. In a season that brought many challenges, the characters must learn to trust God.
Do you have any unusual writing habits?
I don’t think so. I write and keep going until the final product is in the hands of my awesome readers. I like to write in the morning… early mornings, when it is quiet. My favorite writing spot is in bed, propped against pillows.
What authors, or books have influenced you?
Thanks for that question. I love to read, and I particularly enjoy reading Christian Fiction romance. Authors who have inspired me to write include – Authors J.L. Campbell, W. Mason Dunn, Cassie Edwards Whitlow, Tesa Erven, Tonya Franklin, Angela Y. Hodge, M.A. Malcolm, Melissa Mallory, Melinda Michelle, Ramona Poole, Danyelle Scroggins, Lorine Thomas, Denise Walker, Genevieve Woods, Rhonda McKnight, Michelle Stimpson, Kim Cash Tate, Vanessa Riley, Barbara Joe, Adrienne Thompson, and countless others.
Reading has always been the one thing that I loved to do from a tender age. I don’t recall a particular book or author having a direct influence. Off the top of my head, three books stand out, “Gone with the Wind”, “Flowers in the Attic” and “Animal Farm.”
Who are your favorite authors?
At this time, no favorites. I just read.
What are you working on next?
As always, I am excited about my writing journey, and I am thankful for the opportunity to share with others. I just wrapped up the “Encounters of the Heart” series. Usually, I take a few weeks off to rest. On another note, I keep thinking that I would love to write books with one-word titles. I’ll see where the Lord leads regarding that thought.
What is your best method or website when it comes to promoting your books?
I love promoting my books using the services of Ereader News Today.
Do you have any advice for new authors?
Here goes:
1. Determine why you desire to write. After you have completed that task, do an outline of your ideas.
2. Ask for help. Don’t be overwhelmed by your lack of knowledge about writing or the publishing industry. Select an individual, group or organization with the knowledge or ability to help you succeed.
3. Educate yourself. Do research to obtain information on how you can best leverage your knowledge and abilities to fulfill your dream of writing. The internet is filled with information of all sorts about writing, publishing and marketing your book.
4. Determine the genre of your book.
5. Benchmark against the best in the area of your writing assignment. Nevertheless, be a trendsetter. Do not be afraid to break new ground.
6. Research your publishing options (traditional publishing, assisted self-publishing, do-it-yourself publishing) before making the decision.
7. Remember to budget for editing and promotional activities. Create a marketing plan.
8. Create your author platform (website and social media) to connect with readers.
9. Be enthusiastic about your book. It will help you to move forward when things are not going as planned.
10. Stay away from negative people and those who will talk you out of writing your book.
11. Celebrate the milestones you have achieved during the process of completing your book.
12. Stay expectant. Trust God. He will bring it to pass.
What is the best advice you have ever heard?
Create an author platform to connect with readers. Benchmark against the best in the area of your writing assignment. Nevertheless, be a trendsetter. Do not be afraid to break new ground.
So...what's the new book about?
Larry and Rozene Kanate have moved beyond the consequences of their mirrored sin. The birth of twin daughters helped to seal their happily-ever-after. Life is wonderful, until it’s not. After the beaded curtain falls, Rozene scrambles to put the pieces together and avoid public humiliation. As the past crosses paths with the present, will their marriage survive?
Madison Bradshaw has moved past her inability to trust and love. But when Tyler, her husband, makes a special request, she hides the truth from him. What could go wrong?
In this captivating conclusion to the bestselling Encounters of the Heart series, unresolved issues make unwelcome visits to test the resiliency of love. Will the characters learn to reset the atmosphere in which they live? Will they live in a place where God finds it easy to bless them? In a season that brings many challenges, they must summon the courage to forgive, heal and fall in love again.
Excerpt: Hearts Over The Line
Pastor Fotola had looked him straight in the eye when he responded, “I know you don’t believe that.”
Larry had to take it back, for he knew the very essence of God was love.
“God has been with you long enough for you to know that He has power over the elements,” Pastor Fotola told him. “Don’t let the elements intimidate you and push you from a place of faith to a place of fear; from love to hate. Stand believing that God who took you through your other situations is in control of your current situation. Remember the Word of the Lord—no weapon that is formed against you shall prosper. I declare that everything that was aligned to make this situation come together, will fall apart, in the name of Jesus Christ.”
Pastor Fotola watched him, then said, “You both stepped over the line that God has drawn, and for that reason, you must bow your knees before the Lord God Almighty and ask Him for direction.” His eyes scanned the room before settling on Larry again. “Believe God for the impossible, for the hard thing… believe. Let not your heart be troubled. For a troubled heart will not lead to a winning strategy. Put your trust and confidence in the Almighty God.”
And just like that, Pastor Fotola spoke to the fear that had caused him to become discombobulated. That fear had paralyzed him, causing him to want to throw in the towel. To think that he and his family would never recover. That the sun would never come up.
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